What Men Really Want - A Complete Guide - AJ Paris Travel

One relationship expert says what men really want would surprise most women, because we are wired differently. You won’t believe these tactics!

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By Nina Walker

So, ladies, guess what, every dude comes coded.

No wonder we can never seem to “get” them.  

“There’s a code to every man,” says Ricky Santos, a relationship expert. “It’s just a matter of decoding him,” he adds.

Santos is the author of How to Make Him Fall in Love, a hilarious little book he wrote for the woman trying to get him to fall in love.

So, how do you decode your man?

“There is a process,” says Santos.


What Men Really Want: Discover His Secret

Of course, mamma knew he had a secret.

That’s why she never let us go out with him.

But did you know that every dude has a secret?

“Not just a secret but a real obsession,” says Santos.

Believe it or not, Santos says this is something that all men come programmed with.

This obsession will make you go, “WHAT!?!?!?!”

Like, are they for real?

“If I had known it is this easy, I would have been on it long ago,” says Kelly in Los Angeles.

In other words, one of the things that qualify for what men really want is for you to uncover his secret.

To learn more about his secret obsession, Click Here.

What Men Really Want: Text Him Crazy

So, who knew you could land him by text?

But, yes, you can make him fall in love through texting.

“We are wired differently,” says Santos. “We respond to stimuli in the environment differently,” he adds.

For example, Santos notes, there are specific types of texts that can drive a man to fall in love with you.

“It has to do with triggering our instincts,” he says.

Theresa, a woman who lives in Houston, says she had no idea specific texts would drive her boyfriend wild.

“He had been resisting for months,” she says. “I said I love him maybe within weeks, but he was still holding out. These texts worked on him like a charm.”

Santos says, give a man 21 days with these texts and see how wild you drive him!

To learn more about this texting stuff, Click Here.

What Men Really Want: Decode Him

Remember how I said they come pre-coded?

Well, there is a way to crack it.

“It just takes a little work,” says Santos.

In fact, it is a matter of learning how to make him attracted to you, ask you out on a date, getting his full attention.

“It was a step-by-step, and it was very easy to follow,” says Karen in Chicago.

Decoding him will lead to making him love you, trust you, and share his thoughts.

Of course, it also means he will share his heart and ultimately commit to you.

To learn more about how to get your own great guy, Click Here.

What Men Really Want: Get Him Back

So, it happens to a lot of us: you meet a great guy, things go wrong, and you lose him.

Well, forget that!

Guess what, you can get him back.

“Any woman can get her man back,” says Santos. “Literally, there is a science to this,” he adds.

In fact, Santos says as many as 90% of relationships can be saved!

Olivia, in Minneapolis, says it worked for her.

“It didn’t take long at all,” she says, once she put the program in place.

Yes, ladies, what men really want is for you to get them back when they mess up!

So, to learn more about getting your man back, Click Here.


As you can see, there are plenty of ways to attract, date, and make him fall in love.

If you were lucky and met someone and it ended, now you can even get him back!

However, I’m curious to know what program worked best for you!

Or maybe you mixed them all and got an explosive positive return?

Let me know!

Nina Walker is a food writer for Caravanzers.